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Here’s my take on codependency from someone who is probably codependent Maybe I am more at odds with the term. Anyways, Carl Jung philosophy on human connection is vital to growth and essential to living. We are all linked, connection is a necessity for existence (and yes he discusses non dependent and individuation). Someone who has been hyper independent their whole life of course when dating or in friendship will latch onto that person because of the deprivation. (I mean y

Yes, you read it correctly. The story Disney has portrayed to all little girls is the knight in shinning armor love story, don't get me wrong Disney has been doing a better job at being more realistic, I digress. This was the narrative for the generation I grew up in. Although, I never really believed I would get my knight in shinning armor bullshit love story and instead went to the other extreme; I don't need a knight in shinning armor to come to my rescue, or save me. I to

How can you be so heartless? Did you ever really care? How can you so easily walk right past me and not say a word? Just throw me away, discard me like trash. Spending every day if not every other day with me to not even looking at me as if we are complete strangers. Unbothered, unfazed, detached, indifferent. How can you not care so easily? How can you be so heartless?

I would like it if we both go and have a good time. This feels like a set up, if I don’t have a good time then I’m causing a problem when this is not about your or I. The truth is how would I have a good time? No that would not be my authentic self acting like everything is okay. The most consistent thing true about me is I wear my emotions on my sleeve. Us both being at a mutual group event after you dumped me with no emotion, which felt like you threw me away like garbage,